It 's also why our defensiveness is so predictable and so counterproductive .
这也是为什么我们的防御性如此的可预见，如此的适得其反。
Similarly , it has been found that people low in defensiveness have more experiences of love than do highly defensive people .
同样地，已经发现防御性低的人比高防御性的人有更多爱的体验。
The study of defensiveness and stress was carried out at the montreal heart institute , where researchers evaluated 81 men and 118 women aged 20 to 64 years .
