What a real growth is need courage and faith to try new thing and abnegate old things .
真正的成长是要有勇气和信心去尝试新的事物，同时放弃旧有的事物。
To abnegate yourself is the best way to get close to yourself .
舍却自己是寻到自己的最好办法。
Its only clear novelistic technique is the specificity of dialogue , although that is so specific as to almost totally abnegate the claims that it 's a memoir of any sort .
