If you have followed attentively my meditations up to this point , you will probably wonder about one thing .
如果至此你们都专心地跟上了我的思考，你们可能会对一件事感到奇怪。
I also work on listening attentively and really focusing on what each of my sons is saying , whether the communication is verbal or not .
我还需要专心、努力的听两个儿子的儿语，有时候和他们交流用的根本不是嘴。
Express your feelings in strong , clear , direct language , but as your partner will be listening attentively , you won 't need to shout , exaggerate or put your partner down .
