We would rather justify , rationalize , explain and blame someone or something for our obesity , than take complete responsibility for our fat selves .
Many people routinely deceive themselves to rationalize dishonest behavior .
很多人为了使自己的欺骗行为趋于合理而长期自欺欺人。
Sometimes it can be difficult to separate the two types of fear because ego-fear will rationalize itself as healthy fear , e.g. " I don 't want to talk to that stranger because they could attack me , or waste my time . "
