It 's possible if all of those different areas of your life are congruent , if they all follow the same rules .
如果生活中所有不同方面是一致的，如果它们都遵循同样的原则，那就是可能的。
That is the first critical step to building out your actions and behaviors so they are congruent with whom you say you want to be .
这是你建立你行动和行为的第一个步骤，这些行动和行为与你表述的你所要建立的形象是一致的。
To stack the odds in our favor we therefore need to take into account each one of the three methodologies and hopefully find them to be congruent , meaning that they all point in the same direction .
