The couples in these studies seemed to be trying to divide bread-winner and caregiver duties between them , moving well beyond the norms of past decades .
在这些调查中的夫妇似乎在试着在进行养家糊口者和照顾家庭者之间职责划分,远远超越了过去几十年的规范。
This can come as romantic and sweet if the two of you have already established a relationship but when both of you are in the " getting to know each other " stage , you might need to tone down on the " fatherly " or " the caregiver approach " .